The Stations of the Cross –
      
      
        A Lesson in the Walk with Jesus
      
      
        As we participate in the Stations of the Cross this Lenten Season, let’s
      
      
        spend some time at each station meditating on how our daily actions reflect
      
      
        our life with Christ – are we walking with Christ or are we the persecutors?
      
      
        
          The First Station: Jesus is Condemned to Death
        
      
      
        People are condemned every day because of their race, their creed,
      
      
        their social standing. Children are condemned; bullied by others because
      
      
        they’re different. Even Your Holy Bride, the Church, is condemned - by the
      
      
        hostile, the misled, the lost, those who would rather criticize than learn and
      
      
        understand Her.
      
      
        
          Help me, Lord, to humbly accept all as Your children and to not stand by
        
      
      
        
          silently while others are falsely accused. Help me to not be afraid to be condemned
        
      
      
        
          as You were.
        
      
      
        
          The Second Station: Jesus Carried His Cross
        
      
      
        How heavy Your cross must have been, O Lord! Yet it was not the weight
      
      
        of the wood, but the weight of my sins that caused you such pain. Your love
      
      
        for me is greater than my sin, yet instead of making your cross lighter, I add
      
      
        to its weight by gossiping, by closing my eyes to the needs of others, and by
      
      
        failing to trust in Your love for me.
      
      
        
          Help me, Lord, to understand that my sin increases Your burden, and that
        
      
      
        
          my repentance and sacrifice for others brings me closer to You.
        
      
      
        
          The Third Station: Jesus Falls for the First Time
        
      
      
        We’ve all fallen before, sometimes flat on our faces. We don’t “dress
      
      
        right,” or we’re not accepted for who we are and feel as if we don’t belong.
      
      
        We know how it feels, and yet we do it to others. How many times have I
      
      
        seen Our Lord fall and have walked by unconcerned? How many times have
      
      
        I criticized or laughed at other people’s mistakes, or failed to make someone
      
      
        feel welcome?
      
      
        
          Help me, Lord, to pick You up by supporting and loving others, no matter
        
      
      
        
          how different they are.
        
      
      
        
          The Fourth Station: Jesus Meets His Mother
        
      
      
        How beautiful is the love of a mother, and how deep her anguish when
      
      
        her child suffers. Our Lady is no exception. She met her Son on the way to
      
      
        Calvary trusting that God’s will was being fulfilled. She did not turn away
      
      
        from her Son’s cross, but walked beside Him every step of the way. How
      
      
        many times have I turned my eyes away because I could not bear the pain?
      
      
        How often do I get discouraged instead of trusting in God’s will for my life?
      
      
        
          Help me, Lord, to remain as faithful and trusting as Your holy Mother was
        
      
      
        
          on that day. Help me to love You as she does.
        
      
      
        
          The Fifth Station: Simon Helps Jesus Carry the Cross
        
      
      
        We all have our crosses to bear. Some burdens are known to our families
      
      
        and friends. Other burdens are known only to God. We see crosses others
      
      
        carry and convince ourselves that it’s not our place to help, not our place
      
      
        to interfere. Jesus carried a cross He did not deserve for a crime He did not
      
      
        commit. Yet there was one who helped Him when He could not go on. Can
      
      
        we as Christians just stand by while others carry such heavy crosses alone?
      
      
        
          Help me, Lord, not to be so wrapped up in my own burdens that I am
        
      
      
        
          oblivious to the sufferings of others. Help me to be a Simon in a world of
        
      
      
        
          bystanders.
        
      
      
        
          The Sixth Station: Veronica Wipes the Face of Jesus
        
      
      
        There was courage in Jerusalem that day - courage from a woman who
      
      
        fought against the crowd and performed a great act of kindness by wiping off
      
      
        the face of Our Lord. She braved a hostile crowd and the soldiers to do the right
      
      
        thing. How many times have I failed to do the right thing and gone along with
      
      
        the crowd because I was afraid of what people might think or say?
      
      
        
          Help me, Lord, to fight against fear and to have the courage to stand up for
        
      
      
        
          what’s right - even if that means standing alone.
        
      
      
        
          The Seventh Station: Jesus Falls for the Second Time
        
      
      
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        Failure is not an option,” though it happens all the time. We fail
      
      
        ourselves and we fail others far more than we are willing to admit. And when
      
      
        we fail, do we seek out the advice of friends and family, or do we lash out at
      
      
        those who want to help? When someone else fails, do we abandon them, or
      
      
        do we pick them up and help them?
      
      
        
          Help me, Lord, to never abandon myself or others because of what the world
        
      
      
        
          deems as failure. Help me to attain Your definition of success, my Jesus.
        
      
      
        
          The Eighth Station: Jesus Meets the Women of Jerusalem
        
      
      
        We’ve all pitied others, even pitied ourselves - sometimes too much.
      
      
        The women of Jerusalem wept at Jesus’ suffering, but did they understand its
      
      
        purpose? Do I weep and am I repentant because I am truly sorry for having
      
      
        offended God, or do I weep because I think that’s what I’m supposed to
      
      
        do? Do I unite my sufferings to Christ on the cross, or do I weep about my
      
      
        problems, hoping they’ll go away?
      
      
        
          Help me, Lord, to be always aware of my need for repentance, and help me
        
      
      
        
          unite my sufferings to Yours.
        
      
      
        
          The Ninth Station: Jesus Falls for the Third Time
        
      
      
        How agonizing this last fall must have been! To be laughed at by the
      
      
        crowd, abandoned by your friends, and feeling utterly alone is almost more
      
      
        than one can bear. Sometimes we’re the failure, and sometimes we’re the one
      
      
        laughing with the crowd. How many times have I allowed others to fall,
      
      
        thinking that they deserved it? How many times have I offered my help, only
      
      
        to abandon someone because it was just too painful or inconvenient?
      
      
        
          Help me, Lord, to never abandon You, and to trust in You completely despite
        
      
      
        
          what the crowd might say.
        
      
      
        
          The Tenth Station: Jesus is Stripped of His Garments
        
      
      
        To be stripped of one’s garments in public is a form of humiliation few
      
      
        of us have experienced. Yet how often have I stripped people of their integrity
      
      
        through idle gossip, or stripped them of their dignity by my prejudice? How
      
      
        often have I stripped myself of the honor accorded a child of God because I
      
      
        think I’m not good enough?
      
      
        
          Help me, Lord, to place the garments of dignity and value on myself and
        
      
      
        
          others through my love for You.
        
      
      
        
          The Eleventh Station: Jesus is Nailed to the Cross
        
      
      
        It’s one thing to take the blame for something you did; it’s quite
      
      
        another to accept punishment for something you didn’t do.  The physical,
      
      
        mental, emotional, and spiritual anguish Our Lord and Our Lady must have
      
      
        experienced that day defies description. And yet when I ask why He would
      
      
        endure such a thing, the answer is always the same: “Because I love you.”
      
      
        
          Help me, Lord, to never add to Your agony through my sinfulness. Help me
        
      
      
        
          love you as I ought; help me follow Your Blessed Mother’s example.
        
      
      
        
          The Twelfth Station: Jesus Dies on the Cross
        
      
      
        Our Lord’s agony had ended, yet the depth of His Mother’s agony was
      
      
        greater than any woman had ever known. The only thing more painful than
      
      
        contemplating this anguish is the knowledge that my sins caused it! What I
      
      
        deserve is damnation; what I received is redemption. It is a love too deep to
      
      
        comprehend, a love that redeemed the world.
      
      
        
          Help me, Lord, to remain ever grateful for Your gift of redemption. Help me
        
      
      
        
          to not betray Your love through sin, but to remain ever faithful.
        
      
      
        
          The Thirteenth Station: Jesus is Taken Down From the Cross
        
      
      
        The crowd had dispersed, and only those closest to Our Lord remained.
      
      
        His agony was over, His purpose fulfilled. And yet, how often do I cause my
      
      
        Lord’s Passion to continue because I choose to sin? Will I walk away from the
      
      
        foot of the cross, or do I stay and worship, adore, and accept my sufferings
      
      
        with humility and trust in Your Providence?
      
      
        
          Help me, Lord, to die to myself and my sinful, selfish ways so I can arise
        
      
      
        
          anew with You.
        
      
      
        
          The Fourteenth Station: Jesus is Placed in the Tomb
        
      
      
        Joseph of Arimathea, a righteous man, came forward and asked Pilate
      
      
        for Jesus’ body. Jesus was wrapped in linen, a symbol of immortality, and
      
      
        placed in a tomb where no one had been laid - not a common grave, but
      
      
        one fitting God’s innocent and righteous One. And now, they wait for the
      
      
        fulfillment of God’s word. They wait for the Risen One to appear to them,
      
      
        as He said He would.
      
      
        
          Help me, Lord, to see You as the Risen Lord in my life and in the lives of
        
      
      
        
          others. Help me to trust in the promise of Your resurrection, even when I feel
        
      
      
        
          entombed in my burdens and sufferings.